Finding the Right Help: How to Select Companion Care for Your Aging Parent

Inviting someone new into your parent’s life—and home—takes trust. Companion care can bring relief, friendship, and breathing room for the whole family, but choosing the right fit matters just as much as the service itself.

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1. Clarify Needs and Goals

Start with a simple list. Does your parent need help with errands and light meals, or mainly conversation and outings? How many hours a week? Knowing the “why” and “how often” helps you narrow the search quickly.

2. Research Providers

Look for agencies or individuals with solid references and experience in senior support. Check reviews, ask friends or local senior centres, and don’t hesitate to request proof of training or background checks.

3. Meet in Person

Arrange an introductory visit with your parent present. Notice how the companion and your parent interact. Comfort and rapport often matter more than a flawless résumé.

4. Discuss Logistics Up Front

Confirm availability around key times—holidays, evenings, medical appointments. Talk through rates, cancellation policies, and emergency procedures so there are no surprises later.

5. Start with a Trial Period

A short initial contract lets everyone see how the relationship feels day-to-day. It’s easier to adjust schedules or make a change before habits are set.

6. Keep the Conversation Going

Check in with your parent regularly. Needs can shift, and even a great match benefits from open communication.

Peace of Mind for the Whole Family
The right companion offers more than practical help—they bring friendship and stability, freeing you to be a son or daughter first. If you’d like to learn more - reach out to discuss a plan that fits your parent’s needs and your family’s routine.



Elizabeth Smith